Ruumi tegemine/ Making space

Kui mõttes seisab su kõrval inimene, kes seal kunagi oli, aga enam ei ole ja sa hoiad teda ikka veel seal, on aeg tõsta ta oma selja taha. Muuta ta enda minevikuks või sõbraks ja seljataguseks ning vabastada see koht tuleviku tarbeks kellelegi teisele kui sa seda ühel päeval tahad. Ja kui ei taha, siis temal pole ikkagi asja sinu kõrvale peale lahkuminekut  - ta saab tulla tagasi su juurde ainult uue inimesena, mitte enam sellena, kellena sina teda teadsid.

If you have someone standing by you in your mind, who used to be there, but is no longer, you should shift him or her behind your back. By doing that, you make him to become past or a friend and back-up and you release the space for someone else, if you should want that one day. And if you don´t, then he still has no business to stand by you after breakup – because he can return to you only as a new person, not as someone, you used to know.